Key Note Speech
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Namaste, good evening friends
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Its my great pleasure to be with you all.
· I have so many stories to share, let me share a
story why do I dedicate my life for Dignified Menstruation today.
It started 40 years ago. I knew menstrual blood as an impure, dirty, and contaminated fluid from my mother, and not only observed dozens of menstrual restrictions among my three sisters but also noticed that they were treated as powerless beings, inferior, disadvantaged, and weak. I was shocked and deeply traumatized. I did not like to live as a girl child so I attempted suicide. Unfortunately I failed, and fortunately I am speaking with you all now. The story continued.
At my menarche, when it was my turn to do as expected, I
revolted. I refused to follow any forms of menstrual discrimination. My three
sisters like every other menstruator, had followed our mother in the culture of
menstrual discrimination but I questioned my mother just like I would later question
her and reject the forced early marriage my sisters would quietly accept just
like the menstrual restrictions.
But, we know this is not only my
story. It is story of many of us globally who are born with uterus and ovaries,
and bleed. It is happening now. Since I start my key note speech here today:
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28 girls got already married. And one
in every five girls is married before the 18 years.
Principally, we
all agree that the marriage before the age of 18 is considered a human rights
violation, that this mostly affects people who menstruate, and that it can lead
to a lifetime of disadvantage and deprivation. Practically, we have been
repeating the same things for decades….with minimum results…..Meaning we are
also repeating the same mistakes.
Today, I am claiming that we are
also drivers for child marriage…Because, historically, it has already been 93 years since the first polices
against child marriage called the “ Shardha Act” of 1928 yet we are not close
to eliminating child marriage.
A global network
called Global South Coalition for Dignified Menstruation, where I work as a
founder, reviewed the policies of Bangladesh, India and Niger regards to child marriage
and menstrual practices. That report identified the drivers for child marriage
are; no or low education, poverty, harmful practices, FGM, family honor, trafficking,
gendered norms, disasters, wars, and Pandemics. In other word, ending child
marriage campaign focused on improving education, livelihood, laws, legal
mechanism, engaging boys, and religious leaders. Sadly, we still have insignificant
results today.
Global South Coalition firmly states
that child marriage would reduce if we dismantle the menstrual discrimination
at home, and school. But all research countries and networks which are
dedicated for ending child marriage such as the South Asia Initiative to End
Violence (SAIEVAC), the African Union (AU, 2013, 55 nation), Girls Not Brides (2011,1500
CSO) remain silent on menstrual discrimination.
This is not blunder of NGOs or networks.
It’s the misunderstanding, undermining, and negligence of the most vulnerable community’s
narratives of their authentic experiences and the corresponding grassroots
organizations from the Global South. It may sound harsh but this is the reality.
Menstruation is an inevitable biological phenomena with more than half of the
population of this planet who are born with uterus and ovaries. Irrespective to
global north or south, the taboo, stigma, restrictions, abuses, violence,
deprivation from resources during menstruation that manifested as different
names or forms or magnitude. We, Global South Coalition clubbed it and called
Menstrual Discrimination. It is very complex and multifaceted. It is not only a
form of GBV but also cause and effect for many forms of GBV all around the
globe. For instance, the underlying reason of sex selective abortion in global
south and gender pay gap in global north is same where menstruators are
considered weak, powerless, inferior, and disadvantaged.
Most importantly, menstrual
discrimination plays vital role for construction of power and patriarchy since
childhood. Regrettably, Human Right Declaration-1948, CEDAW (Convention for
Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women)-1979, CRC (Convention
of Child Right) 1989, and SDG (Sustainable Development Goals) 2015 never ever
discuss about the systemic and symptomatic impact of menstrual discrimination
throughout the life cycle of menstruators.
As a result of systemic impact, people
who menstruate have low social status. Symptomatically, her mind and every-day routine
for 5 days in a month or 60 days in a year is interrupted. In Australia, 8 out
of 10 girls hide menstruation. Is this because of menstrual cramps or lack of
menstrual pad or what ? ….It is because of lack of dignity?
Currently, many of us agree that
pandemic accelerated child marriage?
Did we ask whether the
menstruation stop due to COVID? who were in isolation, quarantine, ICU, Relief
distribution, vaccine booth…. ? were not 70 frontline health workers menstruating
people ? Which gender responsive or GESI policy address the menstrual
discrimination from UN to local NGOs? Which DRR & SRHR policy address such
menstrual discrimination? What was the underlying cause of Shadow Pandemic as
Secretary General called in April 2020? Which International Human Right
Instruments address Menstrual discrimination and its impacts on human right, politics,
climate justice, economic etc. Do the free distribution of pad or pad in relief
package address such complexity of menstrual discrimination?
Next week, will celebrate the 16
days activism against VAWG globally, we are here as a lead up event today.
According to the UN’s definition of SGBV, which menstrual practice is not VAWGs
? Before having menstruation, between
the age of 6-9 years, people who menstruate knew about their status through
menstrual perceptions and practices from their mother, sister or school/community.
She considered herself as inferior, impure, contaminated, and disadvantaged.
She also learned and adopted all Dos and Do nots associated with menstruation.
Once she menstruate, emotionally she drained like feeling powerlessness,
disgusting, crying etc. If she is not allow to participate in religious
activities or not allowing to touch any man member? How many types of violence’s
she experienced already at her home. The girl who cannot say no for menstrual
discrimination at home, cannot and will not say no at school for inappropriate
sexual advances, or any marriage proposal.
In this connection, this is very
high time, to unite, hear, and believe the stories of grass root activist,
lobby and advocacy to acknowledge the menstrual discrimination, a multifaceted
SGBV and address accordingly. Without having dialogue on dignified
menstruation, ending GBV is like living in fantasy. We should learn from our past.
Additionally, the resources
should shift towards the grass root activist, organization or networks. I
dedicated my life for advocate of dignified menstruation and Global South
Coalition for dignified menstruation and have been working in zero funding
since beginning.
Before conclude my speech, I
appeal to UN secretary general to endorse dignified menstruation as a 14th
day of 16 days activism for December 8.
And urge to everyone, mark the 8th December 2022, as 4th
International Dignified Menstruation Day and celebrate within your
organizations. This year, we will be marking over 50 countries all around the
globe under the theme of dignified menstruation for ending child marriage.
At last, if you are looking for
gender equality, use the lens of dignified menstruation as vehicle.
I wish for successful conference.
I thank you and good night.
