Wednesday, September 16, 2026

The Cremson Truth : Claiming Menstrual Dignity

 Book Lunch


 Namaste, once again.

 My heart is full today.

 I stand here with gratitude, emotion, and a little doubt—because this book did not begin with a pen.

 It began with a trauma and pain.

 A trauma created by silence, shame, fear, restrictions around menstruation or menstrual discrimination.

 What began as a personal struggle slowly became a question, then a research journey, then a PhD—and eventually, a global claim for Menstrual Dignity.

 The Crimson Truth is a part of that journey.

 For generations, half of population of this planet has live in a silent burden.

 We have whispered about menstruation.

 A natural biological process—the very process through which life continues—was made to feel dirty, impure, and invisible.

 But menstruation is not the problem.

 The discrimination built around menstruation is.

 This book is my attempt to pull back that curtain for menstrual discrimination and ask a simple but uncomfortable question:

 Why should something so natural require an apology?

 My PhD gave academic legitimacy to a struggle that began with lived experience. 

 But the real knowledge came from the people who opened their hearts and shared their menstrual stories with me.

 To every participant, every supervisor, every colleague, and every person who trusted me with their story:

 Thank you.

 Your stories are not merely data

 They are knowledge

 They are resistance.

 They are the truth.

 And that is why The Crimson Truth is not only my book.

 It belongs to every menstruator whose voice was silenced, whose dignity was questioned, and whose experience was told to remain invisible.

 I am especially grateful to Prof. Sanghammitra and Prof. Sunita for believing in this work, for walking beside me, and for giving me this beautiful gift of collaboration and bonding.

 And today, with all my heart, I dedicate this moment to my father, Devi Prasad Paudel, and my late mother, Ganga Maya Paudel.

 They put wings on me.

 They gave me the courage to fly beyond the boundaries I was given, to question what I was told to accept, and to carry the call for menstrual dignity from my own life to the world.

 This book is one dream which I carrying for decades

 Until my last breath, I want to see a world where no menstruator has to trade dignity for culture, silence for acceptance, or freedom for tradition.

 A world where menstruation is not hidden

 Not feared

 Not shamed.

 Not punished.

 But lived—with dignity.

 Because menstrual dignity is not a privilege.

 It is human dignity

 It is composite outcome of at least four principles of human rights; right to dignity, right to freedom, right to equality and right to non-discrimination

 The name on this book may be mine.

 But its crimson truth belongs to all of us.

 Thank you for being part of this journey.

 The book is launched today.

 But the struggl


e—and the dream—continues.

 Thank you. 🙏


Shaurabh and Shailu

 My nephew Shaurabh Bhandari and his wife Shailu Rijal visited me at Tuka's home from Cobham,London. Truly blessed moments indeed.